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Filled Under: Testimonials | Posted on March 1, 2012

Overcame Substance, Smoking Addiction, Accompanied by Anger and Rage

I took your personalized program in January of 2012.  I wanted to thank you for working with me. I am a 50-plus year woman that came to see you regarding a smoking addiction I have. All my life I have suffered from Anger and Rage. I am a survivor of child abuse and thought through traditional therapy I had handled all of the fears, hurt and self loathing that kind of experience left me with, and followed me through my adult life. Your program helped me eliminate the intense rage I have held inside me for all of my LIFE!!  This rage has caused me many problems with my family, making me very embarrassed of my behavior–not knowing how to change.  I cannot believe it.  I find I am calmer and am able to deal with life’s journey. My family notices the difference, I know I have changed and I know I am now able to handle anything else that life’s journey will present to me.  I am hopeful you will work again with another family member that is in need of help as I am sure they will benefit and improve their life with your help. This is effortless on my part how rage is no longer a part of my life.  I wish I would have found you and this NLP sooner. I can only say at this point in my life I am very grateful.  Again thank you and I hope you will continue helping people as you have changed my life.  I am withholding my name but will sign off as a very grateful woman, mother and wife living in New Jersey.

All the best to you,

Debbie A., Rochester, NY

Filled Under: Testimonials | Posted on February 23, 2011

Teenage Son Overcame Life-Long Food Phobia

Yesterday was a very good day. Our son is continuing to try new foods.  My husband and I are just shaking our heads in disbelief!  None of us can figure out what happened!  We feel very lucky that we found you, and feel very good about the whole process, and especially the follow up.

Thank you!

Lorraine Allen, Ewing, NJ

Filled Under: Testimonials | Posted on December 28, 2010

Overcame Soda Addiction

I have found Jeff Schoener, my “Nuru” (neuro-linguistic expert) to be skilled and effective…my results are proof.  Jeff helped me kick a lifetime chronic soda addiction with only 2 sessions. And now I am working on my relationship with food having lost 4 lbs in 4 weeks without dieting, counting calories,

Somehow he easily helps disconnect the thoughts that attract the addiction and relinks them…so my need for them or challenge with them is resolved almost effortlessly. I don’t try to figure it out.  I wanted the changes badly enough that I was committed to the process.  As a result, the changes came fairly easily.

If you really, really want to change, I encourage you to completely surrender yourself to the process and let him help you help yourself.  I am looking forward to addressing more challenges for a happier future!

Alexandria Nizzardi, Carneys Point, NJ

Filled Under: Testimonials | Posted on July 5, 2010
Overcame Fear of Insects

I am now finally able to walk up to my screen and swat bugs off of it and swat flying insects around the house.

Considering the circumstances I  have been pretty calm. I didn’t even have a panic attack. Where previously I would constantly be thinking, “Oh if I open this drawer, I’m gonna see a roach.  If I open my shower curtain I’m gonna see a roach, etc.”  Previously when I had an encounter with an insect, I would stay paranoid for a few days.   Now I am fine.  So all in all I seem to be doing pretty well.

Yes I feel there is definitely improvement and people that know me well have noticed it. I am definitely not spending as much time focusing on taking alternate routes, etc.  It is easier to live life. I would definitely recommend your services to anyone that may need them.

Lisbeth Jacob, Los Angeles, CA

Filled Under: Testimonials | Posted on June 22, 2010

Overcame Fear of Heights Since Childhood

Would you like to join your friends in the fun they’re having? Would you like to have a better vacation?
Would you like to have more fun shopping?

Having just returned from a trip to Europe, I have now enjoyed it all and my husband is much happier too. My only regret is that I did not meet Jeff earlier. Having the freedom from fear is truly exhilarating. Thank you for teaching me to overcome my fear and allowing myself a better quality life.

An update after 6 years:

Dear Jeff,

I recently went for a drive from Santa Barbara to Solvang. I drove on Highway 154 which runs through the Santa Ynez Mountains. It’s a Highway that’s quit treacherous, with its blind spots and tight curves.  However it has some of the most incredible views of Santa Barbara and the California coastline.  It’s the kind of drive I would have avoided like the plague before you worked with me.  I want you to know that  I am forever grateful.  Helping me get rid of my fear of heights has truly changed my life.  To get out of my car and stand at a lookout point, fully enjoying the view, is an experience I thought I would never be able to have.  It’s hard to explain the exhilaration and happiness I feel being able to do this.  The feeling of being free of fear allows me to take many roads untraveled, not just literally but metaphorically as well.  Thank you for helping me live my life to its fullest.

Samir P., Central NJ

Filled Under: Testimonials | Posted on December 17, 2009

Overcame Addiction and Compulsion

After one session:

Things are going really good and busy (a good busy).   Adjusting to the “new” me is very rewarding. I now find myself doing certain things with great ease that I once feared and was hesitant towards.  Now that the “cloud” has been lifted, I find myself more task oriented and more adept at quickly moving from one to another and feeling an overall sense of progress.

The challenge I face now is coming to term with all the tasks I have and properly prioritizing them.  I find myself responding to external stimuli in more productive and tangible ways, leading to a greater sense of self-realization with all that I have to do.  This is challenging, but extremely rewarding… building a growing a set of pleasurable, goal-oriented tasks and finding comfort in the “chaos” of the real world.  

N.L., Los Angeles, CA

Filled Under: Testimonials | Posted on August 21, 2009

Overcame From Fear of  Driving

For years I lived with the fear of driving on freeways. With living in L.A. they’re just a part of life. However I would go out of my way to avoid driving on the freeways, expending time and energy. The few times I tried to talk myself out of the fear and ventured to drive on the freeway, I couldn’t. Actually, I was literally “frozen with fear”.

Working with Jeff, within minutes I felt different, though I couldn’t explain or understand the new feelings. Although I still believed that I couldn’t drive on the freeway, as that was “normal” for me, I for some reason, could not get myself to feel the anxiety. I tried really hard to evoke that fear, but just could not.

Just a couple of days after our session, I got on that freeway as though I’d been doing it forever! And by myself, I might add. Now I can’t even believe that I ever felt afraid! Best of all, I now don’t have to avoid going places requiring to take the freeway, and when I go, I now have a choice whether or not to ride with somebody else! Thank you, Jeff!

Elizabeth Schaaf, MBA Coordinator, NJ American Parkinson Disease Association Information and Referral Center

Filled Under: Testimonials | Posted on August 21, 2009

Overcame Addiction and Compulsion

I feel great and I’m not addicted to soda any longer! I feel as though your work with me gave me the jump start I really have not had a coke/Pepsi since your work with me!! I don’t even have the desire for I have so much more energy and confidence in myself. People have told me that I look like a different person and in some ways I feel a lot different. I am proud of myself for keeping to my healthy lifestyle.

Thank you Jeff for everything!

Name withheld upon request, New Jersey

Filled Under: Testimonials | Posted on August 21, 2009

Gained Clarity and Found Her Perfect Mate!

Jeff Schoener really helped me discover and define what I’m looking for in both a partner and in life. I have learned how to weed out what and who is now obviously not for me, and focus on what and who is. He has helped me get to know myself and taught me skills to realize my potential.

Maureen A. Los Angeles, California

Filled Under: Testimonials | Posted on August 21, 2009

Learned Enhanced Skills For  Difficult Teen Parenting

My husband and I had the extreme good fortune to meet with Jeff Schoener. Through this stroke of luck we have managed to get our life back on track with our teenage son, with whom we had previously experienced problems dealing.

To this point (it has been two months), through implementing the unique skill sets which we have been utilizing daily, the lines of communication are opening up and we are able to talk things through.

Would we go this route again? Absolutely. We can only attribute all of the positive actions that we have taken to Jeff Schoener. Had we listened to our well meaning friends, our son would be in long term therapy and taking medication of sorts.

We appreciate what Jeff has helped us accomplish and I would recommend it to anyone with an uncontrollable situation to help pave the way for a better tomorrow and to lessen fears of any sort.